As the training continues for all us, Lisa, CAYLIE and me included, things are improving. Karen is working with Lisa mostly and will concentrate on me later. CAYLIE has taken to going to bed with Jack around 7:30 or 8:00 everynight. She did have a couple accidents, which we thought might have been a uti. We took her to the vet but they found no trace of infection. Figuring it must be behavioral, we now let her out around 10pm and put her back in Jack's room when we go to bed around 11pm. This seems to be working well for now and have had no further incidents.
As far as the kitchen goes, things are getting a bit better. Some days she will "go to bed" and stay on a rug or pillow for the duration of the meal but she still is "all about the food". I'm sure it is maddening for her to smell all the delicious smells coming from Lisa's kitchen. If she won't settle then we put her in the laundry room and try again the next time.
We are looking forward to the time when we can take her out to church and other locations with us.